BAD INSTRUCTIONSWRONG LESSONS. REAL CONSEQUENCES.EPISODE FILE 014 / COSTS: RELATIONSHIPS
How to Turn Into Your Dad by Swearing You Never Will
Why vowing to be nothing like a parent can keep their behavior at the center of your choices, and how to write a concrete alternative.
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- 1The instruction
I will never be like him. - 2Why it feels safeDefining yourself against a familiar pattern feels like a plan for escaping it.
- 3What it costsYou keep the old behavior as your reference point without practicing an alternative.
- 4The correctionWrite what you will do instead.
- 5Your 24-hour testTurn one familiar ‘never’ into a specific response you could describe or film.