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EPISODE FILE 009 / COSTS: RELATIONSHIPS

How to Lose Every Friend Without One Fight

How adult friendships disappear through vague plans and good intentions, and why sending a date can matter more than sending another reaction.

Episodes / File 9

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  1. 1The instructionWe should hang out sometime.
  2. 2Why it feels safeGood intentions and occasional messages feel like keeping a friendship alive.
  3. 3What it costsA friendship can fade even when nobody fights and both people still care.
  4. 4The correctionReplace a vague promise with a real plan.
  5. 5Your 24-hour testContact the friend who came to mind and suggest a specific date to meet or call.

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